SAD NEWS: J.Lo and Marc Anthony SPLIT!

I hate hearing about SPLITS of any kind!!!

and i was really upset to hear about this one... whatever their reason!

we wish them both all the best

"We have decided to end our marriage," they tell PEOPLE in a joint statement. 

"This was a very difficult decision. We have come to an amicable conclusion on all matters." 

"It is a painful time for all involved," the statement continues, 

"and we appreciate the respect of our privacy at this time." 

Lopez, 41, and Anthony, 42, wed in June 2004

And have 2 adorable kids together!